no women's tournaments anywhere in the country that i know of...i mean local weekly tournaments...all the women tournament players play at the weekly DYPs (draw your partners) like everyone else...if they get together behind the scenes it is not well known
if you like the tournament scene and live in the US and you are looking to buy a table, you need to buy Tornado...much written on this subject on the board here
this is sort of the baseline thread on the subject
http://www.foosball.com/forum/index.php?topic=2704.msg12906#msg12906Warrior has a bigger official tour but their table doesn't hold together well and a Tornado coin op can last your entire life...it is easier to practice on Tornado and move to Warrior than the other way around - see this discussion in the thread below
with that said, MI has some Warrior played on weekly DYP, only place i know of but there might be one or two others accross the country - still i would buy Tornado and just get playing time on the Warrior or if you are one of the lucky few who can find the money and space for two tables, buy both but buy Tornado first
Warrior to Tornado transition
http://www.foosball.com/forum/index.php?topic=3053.0come back with questions any time and keep us updated on how your transition back goes...a number of us on here, myself included, went 20 plus years without playing...look up Old Meister and my early conversations when he was first coming back - heck, i went and found it for you, you would never find it...wonder how OM feels about it today, several years later
http://www.foosball.com/forum/index.php?topic=1365.msg4655#msg4655