Well the men on your table aren't counterweighted so that accounts for some of the lighter feel. The rods on a coin-op are heavier though. You may be able to fit the coin-op rods onto your home model but the bearings are not as smooth and probably will not feel the same. If it's not too late you may want to see if you can return the one you bought and get a coin op. You can find a used coin op for equal or better price than a new home model. I did the swap when I got into foos, bought a home model and instantly sold it and bought a coin op. The weight of the rods is only one of many reasons(heavier men, better bearings, heavier cabinet, superior build quality, etc.) a coin op plays better than a home model. The fact is the tables play much differently.
Chris